Showing posts with label open thread. Show all posts
Showing posts with label open thread. Show all posts

new year = new look

>> January 14, 2010

Ready...

Set...

Makeover!

With the new year, new subjects, and new guest bloggers to be revealed - it was time for CLUTCH to get a facelift.

We hope the new look does a little better job of illustrating the three nuances of CLUTCH: clinging (grasping and holding on tightly), with class (you know, like those hot little clutch purses we like to carry around), us chicks (like a clutch of eggs in the same nest).

As always, we welcome your feedback and comments. We want CLUTCH to be your go-to place for interaction, inspiration and ideas - so please let us know how we can make that happen.

the CLUTCH chicks

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guest posting call...

>> September 20, 2009

Hi girls,

We'd like to open CLUTCH up to all our readers, in an invitation for you to contribute through guest blogs, video blogs, questions and so on.

Just being totally transparent here - Delina's got 10 week old twins and a toddler, and I (Sarah) am counting down the last 30 days before baby #1 arrives. So we're both suffering from variations of sleep deprivation and baby brain.

We think it's a good time for those of you who are interested, to chime in. CLUTCH can only benefit from a variety of perspectives and insights - so we'd love to hear from you. Got questions? Got giveaways to suggest or offer? Got life lessons to share? Read a great book lately?

Don't be shy!

(Pretty please? With a cherry on top?)

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helping kids understand daddy's job

>> August 12, 2009

I recently read an online topic thread where someone wrote:

Being a Pastor's Kid (PK) is like being the child of a celebrity, just without the money.
As PWs we all know that sometimes life in a pastoral family is rewarding, and sometimes it's tough. In our final post of this PMS week on supporting our PHs, we can't leave our kids out of the picture.

Our attitudes as the PW and the Mom, can make a big difference in how our kids feel the pressure of dad's ministry career. We can pass on a sour disposition, or we can help them find the meaningful side of things - our choice. And sometimes easier said than done...

No matter how "normal" a life we try to provide for our children, they are still the pastor's kids. It's an unavoidable fact of reality. So what can we do to help them cultivate a sense of value and respect for dad's work? Here's a few of our ideas:
  1. Be honest with them about dad's work. Protect them from what they don't need to know, but don't hide the real facts of ministry from them. Be open and transparent.
  2. Get them involved in serving others - let them see some of the things that dad and mom do, so that they don't feel stuck on the fringes of your ministry. Give them their own role to play. Make it a whole-family way of living.
  3. Build up their respect and appreciation for their Pastor Dad's calling in the way that you talk about people at church and your family's life of ministry.
  4. Hold them accountable to whatever standard you set for them, because that's who you are as a family, not because Dad is the pastor or because people might talk. If it's worth doing, doing for the right reason - because God asks you to do it, instead of to please (or avoid displeasing) other people.
  5. Be excited about church. Kids catch on to your enthusiasm, especially when they are little. Talk about church during the week, sing their songs from children's classes at home, study their lesson with them - make church something they look forward to. If you hate being at church, they will too.
Got more ideas? Share how you help your kids support daddy.

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PMS: open thread on supporting PHs

>> August 7, 2009

Take a minute today and ask your husband this question:

What is one thing that I do, (or that you WISH I would do) to support you in your leadership as a pastor? What action of mine is the most meaningful to you in your ministry from me as your wife?"
Ask his permission to share his answer, and then tell us what he said in a comment below.

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making ministry out of hobbies...

>> July 29, 2009

Sometimes, it seems to be very difficult to connect with people outside our husbands' congregation. I mean, there are so many needs and demands from the people at church, that as a PW it can start to feel exhausting. We still want to minister, and we want to share Jesus with people "out there" somewhere. But how?

Last Thursday night I decided to be brave and try out a fitness class at our new gym. BP (before pregnancy) I was a 5-days-a-week-at-the-gym kind of girl. But the last six and a half months of constant nausea kind of took the wind out of my sails.

But I believe regular exercise is a big part of being healthy with this body temple God gave me (you know, 1 Corinthians 6:19 and all), so now that I'm feeling a bit better I've been slowly going back. It's amazing how much slower I move at almost 7 months pregnant!

Since I don't want to overexert, I settled on AquaFit - a swimming pool class filled with little old ladies and.... me. The lady beside me was perhaps 75 years old, and from Wales. She asked when the baby was coming, and then shared about her hobbies - knitting and painting for all her grandchildren.

Perhaps I'm an odd duck for this generation, but I do a lot of practical hobbies too. Crocheting, needlework, sewing, gardening, etc... Knitting however is something I've never seemed to learn beyond the basics.

She told me she can knit just about anything, and has been doing it for years. I asked if she'd teach me sometime, since she lives so close by, or even if she'd be willing to teach a few ladies from my church. Her eyes lit up like she'd been asked to go to a banquet!

Next time I see her, I'm going to talk to her more about it. She seemed lonely and eager for friendship.

In the meantime, I left the AquaFit class reminded that even hobbies can give a chance to connect with somebody. My hobby of exercise, combined with my interest in knitting, and voila! A chance to minister.

Ever had a friendship or ministry opportunity come out of your hobby? Do share!

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3 things i would change about my church

>> April 23, 2009

Vent time!
Can you list three things you would change about your church? Doesn't have to be all deep and spiritual (unless you want it to be), just things that get on your nerves on a regular basis -- your church pet peeves.

Here are mine:

  • the service isn't streamlined and we very rarely get out before 1:30-2p.m..
  • the children's ministry is an afterthought.
  • innovation, cutting-edge methods and ideas, change, creativity = blank stares.
What are yours?

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how green is your church?

>> April 22, 2009

In celebration of Earth Day, I figured we'd green-up the conversation.

So, is your church intentional about going green? Does the church office recycle? Do you reuse/recycle bulletins?

Here are some recommendations for the congregation:

  • Car pool to church once a month.
  • Hold a local foods potluck with ingredients coming from within 150 miles of the church.
  • Use CFS bulbs.
  • Use glassware instead of paper or foam products.
  • Use recycling bins.
  • Use shade-grown, fair-trade coffee and reusable mugs.
How is your church encouraging members to take care of God's creation? How eco-friendly is your church? Tell us about it.

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How can we pray for you?

>> April 17, 2009

Inspired by the Global Pastor's Wives Network's call to pray for pastor's wives worldwide, we're moved to ask how we can pray for you...the women in our own little under-40 network.

We're committing for praying for you specifically, by name and situation, every day for the next week. For me (Delina) personally, it's refreshing to pray for other people and get out of my own head, issues, problems, stresses for a bit. I'm looking forward to praying for you.

If you're inclined to join us in praying for one another, please lift up these prayer requests on our behalf.

Delina: The next few months hold a lot of changes , decisions and transitions for our family (babies on the way, should we move closer to family? should he find another job? etc. etc.). We want to hear God clearly about our next moves. We want to move in faith and not rely on our own plans, fears, strategies and schemes in our decision-making.

Sarah: We've been pummeled from every side lately - first baby on the way, recently told I'm losing my job at the end of the summer, my PH's mom just diagnosed with a rare and aggressive form of leukemia (she's his only living parent and they are very close), my father's health in decline, and seeking to lead wisely in our church through some current turmoil. My husband especially needs energy and discernment while he juggles all these crises on his plate.

How can we pray for you?

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stuff to talk about...

>> January 19, 2009

So girls, our goal here at CLUTCH is to keep talking about the stuff that's relevant. Things that are important to you. Real issues.

We've got the next few months of posts lined up, but we'd like your input too! And we also wanna make sure we're on the right track to meeting your needs.

So here's an open thread for you. Will you please ponder for a second or two about what topics you'd like to see us address on CLUTCH? You can suggest anything - no topic is off-limits.


  • It might be something you' d like to hear about from a PH on "he says"...
  • Or something tough, to tackle during PMS week...
  • Or a really splendid giveaway idea...
  • Or a book we should review for all the other PWs...
  • Or a spiritual topic you're wrestling with...
  • Or a fabulous PW we should interview...
  • Or a question you'd like us to ask, so you can hear everyone else's answers and feedback.
Whatever you're thinking, we can't wait to hear it. Don't be shy!

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you're invited...

>> December 9, 2008

...to invite your friends.

Every one of us has at least one friend who is a pastor's wife. And they might like to belong to an online community of fellow travelers in the same shoes, too.

So we'd like to invite you to pass on the link to CLUTCH (http://clutchtalk.blogspot.com) to your PW friends. Doesn't matter what country they live in, or what church they belong to...

The more readers, the more we can learn from each other and inspire each other to be God's women in the pastoral home.

Merry Christmas!

the CLUTCH chicks

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open thread

>> December 5, 2008

What's on your mind?

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are you out there? - open thread

>> November 21, 2008

We sorta already know you're there, but you're probably just lurking around, checking out the blog. Well, there's not *much* to check out yet, but there can be if you help us out.

We're going to reserve Fridays and the weekend for an open thread. Tell us what's on your mind...anything (even if it's not related to your life as PW). Or, if you prefer tell us what would you like to see on Clutch?

Talk to us. We're listening.

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